Update from my MidWife journey...
We had our first "Centering Pregnancy" appointment/class today. There were only two other women there but that meant we got done within an hour and a half. The MW, Erin, was so sweet, and her assistant, Heather, was as well. They answered any and all questions w/o avoiding issues or tip toeing around a question.
When we got to the class, I took my blood pressure and weight. After the MW got there she did our 'belly checks' (measurements). We introduced ourselves and talked for a bit, then the MW discussed some symptoms we may be experiencing at this stage (ligament pains, etc.) and what we could do to relieve them. We had a lot of question and answer time. It was nice because, not only did you get an answer from the MW, but your classmates could tell you their thoughts as well and give advice on things that worked well for them.
The MW had looked at my records and seen that I was Rh Negative so she asked if I wanted to go ahead and get the RhoGAM shot. I told her I was scheduled to do that and do my glucose screen next week, and she said I could do that today too. I was very thankful. I don't think any OB would have volunteered to let me get more done at once. My OB we had been working with seemed to want to rush me in and out at every visit.
I was very glad to have some labor and delivery ?s answered too, including how much the MW will be available to me and if they have birthing tubs available (yes, and i'm thrilled).
They suggested I have a doula or other supporting woman in addition to my husband when I mentioned that I was a bit worried about having someone there to keep me focused and calm since this is my first birth and I'm not sure exactly what to expect (even though I've educated myself and am continuing to do so).
I think I will see if my friend who has had 3 children naturally will be my 'doula'. She had volunteered previously, but I was still trying to decide.
I stayed after to get blood drawn for the glucose screen and an antibodies test for the Rh factor and also to get my RhoGAM shot. This was the only part of the appointment that wasn't too enjoyable. For some reason, my vein kept trying to roll away when Heather was taking my blood so my arm is still somewhat sore. Also, the RhoGAM shot was not too comfy, especially when the medication went in. Luckily I am not afraid of needles or shots. These were just a little more painful than usual.
I would definitely recommend a class like this! It was so comfortable and relaxed. No waiting in a crowded waiting room or feeling like you need to hurry so the Dr./MW can get to their next patient. The class was scheduled for 3 hours. We only took an hour and a half b/c it was a smaller group and we covered what we needed to quicker. There may be more classmates next month. Our time (1-4) doesn't seem to work with most people's schedule. It's perfect for us since DH works nights, so we can't do morning or night classes. I'm so thankful we get to do this! :)
I am so much more pleased with the care I am receiving now. I feel like my voice is being heard and valued!
Do you feel like your care is focused on you and your time, or your doctor's/midwife's?
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